The Best Meal Plan for Skinny Fat People to Lose Fat & Gain Muscle

If you're what people call “skinny fat”, chances are you’ve tried cutting calories, doing more cardio, and maybe even eating clean — but your belly’s still there and your arms still look soft. It’s frustrating, right?

You might also be wondering whether are you even skinny fat in the first place? I wrote about it in a previous article.

The thing is, skinny fat people need a different approach. You’re not just trying to lose weight. You’re trying to lose fat and build muscle at the same time — what we call body recomposition.

And your meal plan has to support your training, not work against it.

In this post, I’ll show you how to:

  • Eat the right macros (especially protein)

  • Choose real food — not just Western “clean” meals

  • Calculate your needs based on your body

  • Measure food without weighing scales using hand or plate guides

Let’s get into it.

Why Typical Diets Fail for Skinny Fat Bodies

Most diets focus on cutting calories and doing more cardio. And yeah, that can make the scale go down — but you’ll lose muscle too, especially if your protein is low.

When muscle goes down, your body looks even softer... not tighter.

Instead of just eating less, skinny fat people need to eat smarter — especially higher protein and structured meals.

Get Your Macros Right (Especially Protein)

Macronutrients = Protein, Carbs, and Fats.

Each one plays a role:

  • Protein = builds and protects muscle

  • Carbs = give you energy to train and recover

  • Fats = support hormones and brain function

🔑 If you're skinny fat, protein is the game-changer.

How much protein do you need?

Protein: Your Muscle-Building Foundation (Don’t Skip This)

Daily Total Protein Intake Is More Crucial Than Individual Meal

Some studies suggest around 20–40g of protein per meal and spreading your meal througout the day is ideal for stimulating muscle protein synthesis (MPS) — that’s the process your body uses to build muscle.

But, upon further research, I found that we don’t have to worry about eating lots of protein in one seating.

Accoding to a research paper that states that The anabolic response to protein ingestion during recovery from exercise has no upper limit, I am now confident that those doing intermittent fasting can still maximise their muscle growth even while within a small eating window.

There is also not much to worry about when it comes to eating high protein meals, unless you already have kidney issues.

Don’t Fear Carbs or Fats — Use Them Smartly

Carbs are your body’s primary energy source, especially when it comes to training. They fuel your workouts, ensuring you have the strength and endurance to push through sets and reps.

Going low-carb isn't necessary unless you're looking for a specific goal, like extreme fat loss. For most people, especially those trying to build muscle and lose fat, carbs should be included in the diet.

Fats: Keep Them in Check, But Don’t Cut Them Out

Fats are crucial for hormone health (especially testosterone and metabolism), brain function, and energy. But because fats are more calorie-dense than protein and carbs (9 kcal per gram compared to 4 kcal), it’s easy to overdo them — especially from fried or oily food.

Use Hand Portion or Plate Method

If you hate tracking with apps or food scales, no worries. Use your hand as a guide:

Plate method (easy visual):

  • ½ plate veggies

  • ¼ plate protein

  • ¼ plate carbs

  • Add healthy fats with thumb-sized portions

This works great for lunch and dinner. For breakfast and snacks, go with combinations like:

  • Protein + fruit

  • Protein + oats

  • Eggs + toast + some fruit

Don’t Forget Fibre

Fibre helps digestion, keeps you full longer, and supports fat loss by preventing overeating. It also helps keep your blood sugar stable and supports gut health — which affects everything from energy levels to mood.

Aim for:

  • 25–35g fibre per day

  • From vegetables, fruits, oats, beans, and wholegrains

First: How to Adjust Your Meals

Before jumping into the template, you need to know how much to eat.

Use these 3 tools:

1. Your Bodyweight

Use this to estimate your macronutrient needs.

Protein:

  • 1.6 – 2.2g per kg of bodyweight

    • Eg. 60kg person → ~100–130g protein daily

    • Eg. 70kg person → ~110–150g protein daily

Carbs:

Aim to get 3 – 5g per kg, depending on training volume

  • More carbs on training days

  • Lower (2–3g/kg) on rest days if goal is fat loss

Fats:

Aim to get 0.8 – 1g per kg

  • Eg. 60kg person → ~48–60g fats/day

Fibre:

Aim to get 20–35g/day

  • From veg, fruits, whole grains, beans

2. Hand Portion Guide (Easy & Portable)

No weighing scale? Use your hands.

3. Plate Method (Visual Portioning)

When eating mixed meals like nasi campur or cai fan:

  • ½ plate = Vegetables + fruits

  • ¼ plate = Protein

  • ¼ plate = Carbs

  • + 1 thumb of fat (if needed)

Use this when eating out or at family meals. Just eyeball it.


Sample Daily Meal Plan Template (60–70kg, Active Person)

You can adjust portion sizes (add/remove a palm, thumb, etc) based on your body size and training day.

Breakfast

  • 2 eggs (1 palm protein + 2 thumbs fat)

  • 2 slices wholemeal toast (2 cupped hands carbs)

  • 1 orange or banana (1 cupped hand carbs + fibre)

  • Optional: Coffee/tea with little or no sugar

💡 On rest days, you can reduce the toast to 1 slice.

Lunch

  • Grilled chicken thigh (1–1.5 palms protein)

  • 1–1.5 cups rice (1.5–2 cupped hands carbs)

  • Stir-fried mixed veg (1–2 fists veg)

  • Drizzle of olive oil or sesame oil (1 thumb fat)

💡 Swap chicken with tempeh, fish, lean beef, or tofu.

Pre-Workout Snack (1–2 hrs before training)

  • 1 banana (1 cupped hand carbs)

  • 1 boiled egg or ½ scoop whey shake (½ palm protein + 1 thumb fat)

💡 Quick, light, easy to digest. Add more carbs if you train longer or lift heavy.

Post-Workout Meal / Dinner

  • Steamed or grilled fish (1.5 palms protein)

  • 1 medium sweet potato or 1 bowl rice (1.5–2 cupped hands carbs)

  • Cucumber salad or sautéed spinach (1–2 fists veg)

💡 Post-workout meals need both protein + carbs to help muscle recovery.

Optional Night Snack (if hungry or need more protein)

  • Low-fat Greek yoghurt + berries (1 palm protein + 1 fist fibre)
    OR

  • Protein shake + small apple (1 palm + 1 cupped hand)


Daily Meal Plan Template (90–100kg Male, Active, Fat Loss Target)

Aim: Create a daily 500 kcal deficit through food. Combine with light to moderate training for best results.

You can scale portions slightly depending on your exact weight, training intensity, and hunger. Use this as a flexible guide.

Breakfast

  • 3 whole eggs (1.5 palms protein + 3 thumbs fat)

  • 2–3 slices wholemeal toast (2.5 cupped hands carbs)

  • 1 banana or large orange (1 cupped hand carbs + fibre)

  • Optional: Black coffee or tea, no sugar

💡 Rest day? You can reduce to 2 eggs and 2 slices toast.

Lunch

  • Grilled chicken thigh or lean beef (1.5–2 palms protein)

  • 1.5–2 cups cooked rice (2 cupped hands carbs)

  • Stir-fried or steamed mixed veg (2 fists veg)

  • Olive oil or sesame oil for cooking or drizzle (1–1.5 thumbs fat)

💡 Alternate protein sources: fish, tofu, tempeh.

Pre-Workout Snack (1–2 hrs before)

  • 1 banana or 1 slice bread (1 cupped hand carbs)

  • 1 boiled egg or 1 scoop whey (½–1 palm protein + 1 thumb fat)

💡 Training hard or long? Add 1 more cupped hand of carbs.

Post-Workout / Dinner

  • Grilled or steamed fish/chicken (1.5–2 palms protein)

  • 1 bowl rice or 1 medium sweet potato (1.5–2 cupped hands carbs)

  • Mixed salad or sautéed leafy greens (2 fists veg)

  • Light drizzle of oil (½–1 thumb fat)

💡 Your most important meal for muscle recovery. Don't skip carbs here.

Optional Night Snack (if needed)

  • Low-fat Greek yoghurt + berries (1 palm protein + 1 fist fibre)
    OR

  • Protein shake + small apple (1 palm protein + 1 cupped hand carbs)

💡 Skip this if you had a big dinner and feel satisfied.

General Tips:

  • Portion control is key — you’re aiming for a slight calorie deficit, not starvation.

  • Drink plenty of water (at least 2–3 litres daily).

  • Keep sauces minimal or homemade — avoid sugary, creamy dressings.

  • Limit processed snacks, sugary drinks, and alcohol.

  • Skip the pre workout meal if you are not working out that day.

Tips for Adjustments

Summary: Eat to Recomp, Not to Shrink

You're not just trying to weigh less — you want to look better and feel stronger.

  • Prioritise high protein

  • Include good carbs and healthy fats

  • Time meals around workouts for better recovery

  • Use hand portions or plate method — no need to stress over weighing food

  • Eat foods you actually enjoy — nasi campur, mee hoon, soups, stir-fry — all can work

You’re not starving yourself skinny. You’re fueling a leaner, stronger you.

👉Want a free meal planning guide for your body type? Let me know in the comment section.
👉 Ready to fix your skinny fat look with proper workouts too? Check out the next post.

Muhammad Zaid Mohd Omar

I'm Zaid Omar, a lifestyle blogger from Singapore, sharing my journey in fitness, gut health, productivity, and personal growth. I used to struggle with being skinny fat, acne-prone skin, and digestive issues, which made life challenging. Over the past decade, I’ve invested in improving my health, and now I share my experiences—navigating life in Singapore, discovering great food spots, and giving my take on trending topics.

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